Are you a player even if you are very open about the fact that you are dating multiple people? Or even if you're not dating multiple people, but you're just that type of person?... Now, how about if you're the female? Is it bad that you're in your twenties and you have never really had a serious relationship? Have you ever been in a crowded room and felt alone? ... hmmm Just some random questions circling my mind (once again this can be blamed on me listening to Musiq and Mario).
Being involved with someone romantically is a battle for me...I am simultaneously okay with being single and just hanging out with my girlfriends, and being annoyed at the fact that I don't have one guy that adds on to my happiness (notice the word ADD, because as I have always felt no one can make you complete). I don't know maybe I'm just over thinking things at the moment... but I know that men and women alike think of the pros and cons of getting involved with someone. Maybe I am too jaded, but then again isn't it fair to be cautious when you've dealt with jerks? Isn't it fair to also throw caution to the wind and go for the prize even if you might not get the gold medal?... are you seeing how I sound conflicted... when I start to think of this I stop myself because I end up going on an internal rant that sounds a lot like the above mentioned... Don't mind me, I know time tells it all.
Playing it on & on: Alicia Keys- Feelin' U, Feelin' me Jaz-zy. Sazzy... FanTastic
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No, No, Not particularly bad but you definitely want that experience, Yes.
I did notice that you said ADD, and I do agree. NO one can make you complete. Especially the matter of love...
Definitely not wrong to be protective of your heart if you've dealt with Jerks... maybe one day I can help you spot the jerks...
Don't stress it! You'll find the one.
a player is someone who plays "games" if your blunt your not playing games.
its ok to admit to feeling alone..
as far as romance, plain and simple its complicated for all.
Happiness is the sum of all the above.. so I think finding the right person to spend the rest of your life with in a sense, plays a major role.
and its ok to fall in love.. its better to have love and lost then to have never loved at all.. I recommend you to see the movie "He's just not that into you"
but moving foward. I say there's plenty of life to live so don't slow down for know one. I think we should all find the person that supports and influences us to become better and acomplish all goals. Find that right fish in the sea.
I saw that movie lol and it was hysterical and honest. And I'm not stressing it, but it does linger in my mind from time to time... I am after all, only human.
well...... I am a marcian .. lol.. **wink
you sound like me a few weeks ago.
like u told me, its only temporary. just take it by the horns.
if you dont like, ur not a player. is it bad if your 20's and always been in a relationship?
is it bad to feel alone in a crowded room?
and i dont think u r jaded at all...not the way i've seen others be at least.
snaps fingers @ Creon
ur the player pimp...
So says the Pimp to the Playa.
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