Dating...

I just had a conversation with my mother about guys that are cheap. Okay here is my take on it. On the first date the guy should always pay. End of story. You are courting the female, not the other way around. You should open every door and walk on the outside of the street. Call me old fashioned, call me close minded... but as I said before to each its own... if you like girls with green eyes then don't date the one with browns.

As my mother just told me, if the guy is not like this the first time. He will never be like this in the future. I am by no means a gold digger, my ex's can vouch for me on the dinners, movies, materialistic things I payed for--- and no I am not keeping tabs, I do it because I like to please my partner and make them feel special. But the first date is very important.

I don't like cheap people. I myself I'm not cheap at all. which is why I surround myself with a group of females that are humble and share the little that they have. I was raised with three older cousins and we all swapped jeans, sneakers shirts. If we didn't have money to go out (aka the pool on 99 street) we would make key chains out of lanyard and sold them door to door (I'm a hustla baby).... this is how I was raised.

My point is, if the girl has to go the extra mile to look great and make you feel like you are walking with a dime piece then make the effort. What kills me are the guys I've gone on dates with, that are rude and cheap and want a kiss. This is just some sht. I can't help but laugh. I guess a man who is super tight with his wallet reminds me of my father and it scares me to end up with a man who will be the same with his children...No, I don't mean wine and dine either( gotta make this clear) I know there is a recession and believe it or not a peanut butter samich with a small juicy juice @ a park would def be a great first date.

Be thoughtful. Its not that hard.

Jeez.Luis.

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