Limon y sal......

Sunday. Don't you love Sundays? I met up with my Mj aka Yuvs. in Manjatan and went on a hunt for pants on sale ... haha, listen, I am NOT cheap at all, trust me. However, unless you are living under amethyst rock then you should be on my boat... the ---I need to be economically stable and not spend on unnecessary things- boat. Anywho, great finds.

Entonces fast forward to the evening. We got to sitting and talking, I swear this woman gives me so much perspective on life, so we spoke about (drum roll) relationships! tada! It was actually a continuation of another conversation we were having, and well it was quite enlightening. It gave me an idea for another chapter of the book I will start to write sometime this year.

I just want to share some of the things that were said through the conversation, and maybe you gals and boys can agree with us or maybe you wont... or maybe you will gain some new insight, or maybe you will cast us aside and think you know it all--- as many of us young people seem to think (oh the madness).

- Okay, all the guys you have dated (or girls) have ONE common factor, YOU. And so, maybe you need to evaluate yourself, because even if they approached you (as in kicked game etc) you still had to choose them right back. Entonces, take a closer look at these men, that's key. Yes you may be dating new people, but they are recycled. TRUST.
- When you are considerate you are taken for granted because you immediately become excessively available... and we all know, when you are always available you are no longer requested, you are simply expected... catch my drift?
- You know you are in a good place in your life when you can sit and discuss all the wrong moves you have made, all the disastrous dates you've been on, all the messy conversations you have had... and simply, LAUGH about it. Not to mention look forward to the many more stories to add to the equation. Oh and don't forget the most important thing... you must be ok with the realization of being single. (lovely! )


And so continuing with my 09 theme I am going to challenge myself to hang out at places outside of my norm... new people, new thoughts...

Ill leave ya'll with this excerpt from our convo:
Me: maybe love is not something that happens to you, mayb its a choice you make.
Mj: Oh no? what is love?
Me: love is crazy hard incomprehensible
Mj: and we yearn it bc?!
Me: well... its a feeling above all else.

Okay kiddies. I suppose to those who read my blog this may just not make sense. But it does to me. And at this moment in my life, the most important thing is that I'm finally beginning to be sure of who I am.

Carpe Diem.

FanStar
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