End one chapter...

Sometimes you have to let go and let the universe catch you.

For men: How to not fk up...

Here are a list of things that men should NOT do if they want to keep a woman who is amazing...

• Don't act like your time is more important than hers, everyone has sht to do
• Don't do one thing at the start of a relationship and get lazy 3 months into it, if that is not you from the start then don't do it
• Don't get salty when something doesn't go your way and try to be indifferent, it comes off as you being an idiot and frankly it will backfire 9 out of 10 times
• Don't fk up multiple times (and you know how you fk up) and then when she ends things you want to hit her off with a text on how you miss her or if she misses you, a text is the bare minimum and therefor makes you a lazy mofo. Put in work if you want her.
• Don't ignore a text/call for days and then act like you didn't, again you look like an ahole
• If she communicates to you something that bothers her or that affects the relationship, acknowledge it and work on it, if you don't it makes you look like a man who does not listen nor cares
• Look up, memorize, remember and practice: RECIPROCATION

Just my 2 cents for the days as men who are making simple minded ahole mistakes seem to be a recurring theme this week.

XO

FanStar

ps- this only applies to men who have already established a relationship with the female, if she has never given you the time of day then find another one...

Waiting to Exhale

I'm going to pick up a copy of this novel, something keeps calling me to it... maybe it's the fact that they announced a sequel to the movie, or maybe it's because the title resonates with me so much...

Living in a new place comes with a lot of ups and downs. This move has affected me emotionally and mentally. I have days where I feel so happy I made this move, and others that make me wonder just exactly what was I thinking... but that's part of every major choice we make in life.

College, careers, love...

Everyday I wake up and I pray, and I pray every night too. Everyday I think of what I want out of life, and how I can maintain my happy healthy state of mind, body and soul.

I think that is the most important lesson I'm learning out here in LA, that maintaining that happy state is important. Whether it's at work, in your home, when you're sharing yourself with someone or simply when you're by yourself.

After all, there is only one of you and you have to deal with you for the rest of your life.

XO

Learning everyday

Today marks 5 years of being part of my sorority. I can't believe its been 5 years. I remember when I began my process, when I got my gear, the days I went above ground and was in Washington Heights giving greetings as people passed by and wondered what the fk was going on... and most of all I remember crossing and how amazing it felt to know I had accomplished something that many try and don't finish.

The truth is pledging taught me a lot, how to deal with difficult people, the meaning of solidarity, conditioning and discipline... I learned so much during those months, and I wouldn't change it for anything. It molded me in so many wonderful ways.

For that I'm thankful.

Happy 5 years to all my line sisters who earned their letters on this beautiful day!