I've reached 25...
And I have so much to be grateful for...
I have my health, a flourishing career, an unbreakable support system and the guidance from God...
With age comes wisdom, even though I've always thought myself wiser than most people in my age bracket, but regardless these years have taught me plenty. Experience is the best teacher after all...
I've learned that you have to make moves for yourself, because sitting around and wishing for it wont make it come true. Be proactive about your happiness is my motto.
I've learned that real friendships will survive anything, even when you feel you've come to an end- a new leaf is turned.
I've learned that family is not just blood but it is also about a spiritual connection with others... those who truly understand me, and do not judge me. Those who question my logic and push me to better myself, those who give me a reality check when I'm out of line and who pick up my call no matter the time when I'm ready to cry. To those, I say thank you.
I've learned that in romance risks are meant to be taken. All the men I've been romantically involved with have taught me a lot. The emotional availability and understanding that I have come from those relationships... From the older men to the younger ones I've dated... the straight up assholes to the overwhelmingly loving... the fathers, the artists, the athletes...
A lesson from each has come to me. And for that I'm thankful, because the man who ends up being my partner will have an amazing devoted and pure love as his companion.
I've learned that I am now not just a woman learning to navigate through life as I inch closer on the bridge God is helping me build, but that I am also a woman who can impact other women who need a mentor and a voice to tell them that all is possible as long as you believe in your capabilities in this world. Believe in the power of YOU.
My girl Jmo asked me what I wished for this 25th year... I said growth and love. Growth in all aspects of my life. And love from family, friends, God and self... love from a man would be wonderful, but only when life feels I'm ready for it.
On this 25th year of life, I want to acknowledge and thank all those who have given me the unconditional love, positive energy and support. I would not be the woman I am today if it weren't for you.
It takes a village to raise a child...
Happy 25th to Me
